Wedding help! I have a Momzilla!
This is a topic which comes up fairly frequently with our couples. Why does this happen? Your Mom has been planning for your wedding since the day you were born! She is more than likely excited beyond belief and wants to make sure everything is perfect. Unfortunately, things can get carried away and out of control unless steps are taken to avoid conflict.
Some things you can do to make things run smoothly are to have a heart to heart early on in the engagement process to express what your wants and desires are and which items are and are not negotiable.
If your Mom is contributing to or paying for the wedding, give her some projects she can do to make her feel like she is needed and wanted. Remind her frequently that her help and advice is appreciated, although you don't necessarily have to follow it.
And finally, remember that this is your wedding Stand your ground and remind yourself, that after all is said and done, you are marrying the love of your life!
Some things you can do to make things run smoothly are to have a heart to heart early on in the engagement process to express what your wants and desires are and which items are and are not negotiable.
If your Mom is contributing to or paying for the wedding, give her some projects she can do to make her feel like she is needed and wanted. Remind her frequently that her help and advice is appreciated, although you don't necessarily have to follow it.
And finally, remember that this is your wedding Stand your ground and remind yourself, that after all is said and done, you are marrying the love of your life!
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